Friday, 7 August 2015

Your "Yenu Illa" is hurting too Deep inside the heart.

I found it odd, when ever people who have been friends (person A & B) for nearly an year and if  person B says i have nothing to share, What !!! May be their lies someThing inside but what makes that person B to say "nothing" always. Primarily it is a fault of person A.

  Consider two dogs, if they stay together for two days they spend time together, they enjoy each others company. Even the birds take crow even they are not friends whenever one crow finds something it will call all crows and make them eat. when animals and birds expresses them selves when they stay together for few days. What makes person B to say "nothing" always?, probably it is lack of trust, belongness and he whole onus is on person A, He should no have asked her talk or he should have made her talk to him closely after nearly an year.

There are many kinds of people around the world, few restrain them self and not to open to others, they r care full, meticulous by birth. this kind of people will express them self if you stay for a month or so. One more kind, these people consider other person are from different planets literally. for example: a south indian with a north east, here both could not do anything with one side expression.

Other kind is the so called celebraties, they will be having lot of fans whom they got recently ( not from birth, from past few years).. if they have got by birth they don neglect other person opinion nor they ignore their feelings. They think they have lot followers and will keep on stamping the good hearts down like mad elephant. Here person A could not do anything until person B is alright.

What if person A is only bad natured & having lot of bad back ground, here if the person B is not talking/expressing has meaning in it.

In the real case, if the person A is bad, person B should have left him before only. if person B is still in contact menas person A is good. Then y B is behaving like that? Why B does not express belonging ness with person A ?? Does B things A is too low profiled, just b/c A is approached B ?? what if A thinks B is on Time pass?? how much pain and hurting does A needs to bear just because of the intentional silence of B. Person B why r u hurting person A?? If u r been with for 6-7 months means there is no fault in even giving up your silence. Silence in any relationship is a poison.  Speak out .. express yourself .. before person A get adjusted to your intentional / aquired silence and stop expressing it self for he relationship sake.

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